Porn is fun!
As almost anyone I know should know, I like pornography. If you didn’t know this about me then you wern’t paying attention. I like collecting it, I like discussing it and (most of all) I like it when people are disgusted by porn. It’s just so silly. Really, what’s so wrong about it? I believe that any healthy individual should enjoy pornography. It doesn’t have to be graphic hard-core porno with girls stretched every which way; it can be as simple as a harlequin novel and the depiction of a consummation of a long unrequited love. I don’t care how you get your porn, just enjoy it.
On that note I read an interesting article on divinecaroline on the topic. Take the time and read it (there are three pages, although that doesn’t seem apparent at first), I believe it has a lot to say about the typical disgust and aversion you hear about girls (and guys) having.
To all of that I say, porn is not the problem. Just because someone likes looking at naked bodies exchanging bodily fluids does not make him a pervert, disrespectful, an infidel, disinterested in his lover or dissatisfied with his lover. It makes him human. It’s about fantasy, imagination, desire, lust. And what, please tell me, is wrong with that? Most men (women, too) can separate fantasy from reality. Do you think Jenna Jameson is going to fly off the screen and do to him what she’s doing onscreen? Not a chance, and he doesn’t think so, either. And if you believe he thinks so … either you’re sorely underestimating his intelligence or you need to ask yourself, what in the world is a smart gal like you doing with a fool like him?
When you watch porn (and you should, especially if you have some sort of judgment about it—there’s no other way to understand it), what exactly is it that you object to? Are you projecting your own insecurities or messages of shame from your childhood onto it?
What I believe the real issue is is put perfectly in this quote:
–DivineCaroline
So be open about your porno gentlemen and ladies, the world will be better for it.
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April 28th, 2008 at 2:01 pm
Just remember that the next time you watch porn, you sinner.
p.s. Great, now you’ve made Baby Jesus cry. Way to go!